Family Assistant/Nanny

to Private Family

Job ID: 3442909

About The Job

This is a role for a live-in or live-out Family Assistant: providing childcare for a bright and energetic 8-yr-old boy, as well as supporting the household with general family assistance such as tidying/organization, house management, scheduling, and errands. The role is anchored around the child’s daily routine and transportation to school/activities, with family support woven in to help two busy working parents keep their home & family life running smoothly.

The home is a busy and family-focused environment where maturity, initiative, and a calm presence are highly valued. The person in this role should feel comfortable jumping in where needed and helping the family create structure and consistency. Someone who communicates clearly, is dependable, and enjoys engaging with children in a thoughtful, screen-free way will thrive in this position.

Schedule
Core coverage is required 7am-9am and 3pm-7:30pm Monday through Friday, supporting the child’s daily routine (getting to/from school and activities). Other family support work can be handled at the Family Assistant’s discretion throughout the week – totaling roughly 40-45 hours per week.

The Employer

Both parents are busy professionals who are deeply involved in their child’s life and value structure, communication, and consistency. They are schedule driven, punctual, and would appreciate someone who is naturally organized, keeps track of school and activity calendars, and communicates proactively.

The family lives in a multi-level six-bedroom home in Arlington, Virginia, two blocks from the metro. Their home is informal and family centered, with an emphasis on kindness and respect. They are looking for someone mature, calm, and grounded, who can help their child de-escalate by creating a sense of steadiness and serving as a positive role model.

The family employs a weekly housekeeper who handles the majority of cleaning. They would appreciate someone who is willing to assist with general tidying and organization, particularly as it relates to the child and shared family spaces.

Responsibilities

Child/Caregiving

  • Assist with morning routines, including helping the child get ready for school
  • Drive the child to school in DC and ensure timely and safe transportation
  • Pick the child up from school and transport him to home or after school activities
  • Provide homework support and academic reinforcement as needed
  • Keep the child engaged after school through screen free activities such as outdoor play and enrichment activities
  • Support days off during school closures with engaging activities and outings
  • Prepare simple meals and snacks for the child
  • Maintain a calm, patient presence for a high-energy child
  • Keep parents apprised of the child’s school/activity calendar and communicate any changes, needs, or concerns

 

Household/Family Assistance

  • Handle home organization, tidying, dry cleaning and laundry
  • Light daily housework (e.g. wiping countertops, emptying dishwasher, etc.)
  • Help manage mail/packages, and basic household maintenance (e.g. changing lightbulbs)
  • Perform various administrative duties (e.g. scheduling appointments, completing forms, researching and coordinating special projects)
  • Help to plan and coordinate functions and activities for the family (birthday parties, playdates, family trips)
  • Research vendors/services, assist with ordering supplies, unpacking suitcases and otherwise support household projects as needed
  • Assist with seasonal organization, light shopping, and one-off errands
  • Occasionally drive family members locally, as needed
  • Serve as an overall extension of the parents while they are at work, exercising good judgment and communication

Must Haves

  • Prior experience supporting a family with school-aged children
  • Comfort driving daily, including into Washington, DC
  • Calm, mature demeanor and the ability to handle high energy children
  • Excellent communication skills and sound judgment
  • Ability to manage schedules, transitions, and multiple priorities
  • Takes initiative while respecting parental preferences
  • Comfortable working independently
  • Interest in enrichment activities such as music, sports, or languages
  • Able to start ASAP

 

Additional consideration:

  • Conversational proficiency in either Spanish or Russian (child is learning both)
  • Candidates with a personal vehicle. A family vehicle can be available if needed, though personal vehicle use is preferred. Vehicle costs for work-related usage will be covered. 

About You

  • You are steady, patient, and emotionally intelligent
  • You enjoy working with children and take pride in being a positive influence
  • You are organized, responsible, and good at anticipating needs
  • You communicate clearly and value transparency
  • You are energetic but know how to create calm and structure
  • You respect routines and understand the importance of consistency
  • You enjoy being part of a family environment

Compensation & Benefits

  • Salary range of $70,000 to $85,000 (depending on experience and preferred living arrangement)
  • Paid vacation, holidays, and personal/sick days
  • Healthcare support offered
  • Vehicle costs covered (if using own vehicle)

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