Why Your References Matter

When applying for a role in the private staffing industry, there are several key components you need to submit to make a strong impression. The most important of these are your resume and professional references, although a cover letter or headshot can help too. While your resume and cover letter showcase your skills and experiences, your references provide a third-party validation of your capabilities and character.

What are references for and why do they matter?

References are provided by individuals who can vouch for your qualifications, work ethic, and character. They matter to employers because they offer an external perspective on your professional abilities and personal attributes. A great reference can strongly reinforce the positive impression you’ve made through your resume and interviews, providing concrete examples of your past performance and reliability.

Having great references is critical in the private staffing industry because personal referrals mean more in this industry than most. A private employer is typically much more reliant on their employees to uphold professional standards of trustworthiness, loyalty and dedication than large companies with hundreds or thousands of employees. They rely on others to validate a candidate’s strengths (or point out potential weaknesses) and thus, it is important that candidates include references that can speak directly to their skills, achievements and values. 

Who to select

When selecting references, consider individuals who have directly observed your work and can speak directly about your professional abilities. Ideal references include:

  • Previous Managers or Employers: They can provide insights into your work ethic, achievements, and growth.
  • Coworkers: They can discuss your teamwork, collaboration, and interpersonal skills.
  • School Faculty: Professors or advisors can speak to your academic performance and potential if you do not have professional references.
  • Colleagues from Projects: Individuals you’ve worked with on significant projects can highlight your specific skills and contributions.

Professional references are generally preferred over personal ones because they offer a more objective and relevant perspective on your professional capabilities.

Notifying contacts

Before listing a contact as a reference, always ask for their permission. Inform them about your job search and the types of roles you’re applying for. Provide them with background information about the positions so they can tailor their responses to highlight the most relevant aspects of your experience. Keeping your references informed ensures they are prepared and can speak confidently on your behalf.

Matching what’s on your resume

It’s essential that your references reinforce the information on your resume. Avoid exaggerating your skills or experiences, as discrepancies between your resume and what your references will absolutely raise red flags with a potential employee. Your references should confirm and expand upon the details you’ve already provided, adding weight to your application by highlighting aspects that may not be fully captured in your resume.

Never use fake references

In the private staffing industry, references are always thoroughly checked, and  misrepresenting your credentials can have serious consequences. For example, “Lulu and Leo’s Law,” signed by Governor Cuomo in 2018, criminalizes false credentials and misrepresentation of caregivers. This law underscores the importance of honesty and integrity in providing references that accurately reflect your professional experience.

Bad references

A bad reference doesn’t necessarily mean someone will give you negative feedback. It could simply be someone who is unprepared or unable to provide detailed information about your qualifications. This is why it’s critical to keep your references in the loop and ensure they are ready to speak on your behalf. A well-prepared reference can make a significant difference in how you are perceived by potential employers.

Your references play a vital role in the job application process. They provide a third-party validation of your skills and character, reinforcing the positive impression you’ve made through your resume and interviews. By carefully selecting and preparing your references, you can enhance your chances of securing a role in the private staffing industry.

At Old State Staffing, we understand the importance of great references. We place candidates in private staffing positions throughout the Mid-Atlantic and are committed to helping you present the best possible version of yourself to potential employers. Contact us today to learn more about how we can assist you in your job search.

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The world is spinning faster every day.

Employment has changed drastically the past few years—how we work, the type of work we do, and even where we work. Yet, while the world adapts, solutions for hiring private staff seem to be stuck in the past.

 

At Old State Staffing, we believe the status quo is not enough, and that those who decide now is the time to settle will be left behind. In the face of great change, tinkering around the edges simply won’t do. Since Day 1, our approach has been built on four key principles:

1. Developing A Quality Product

We’ve built Old State Staffing from the ground up, implementing the same cutting-edge recruiting tools used by the nation’s largest family offices. Historically inaccessible to smaller clients, these tools improve the tracking and management of talent, utilize machine learning for smarter searches, and intuitively compare compensation and qualification benchmarks both regionally and nationally. This allows us to find and match families with the best candidates quicker and more efficiently than ever before.

2. Building A Great Team

We knew from the start that our team would be our greatest differentiator. That’s because our agency is composed entirely of family office professionals who know what exceptional candidates look like; because we’ve applied to, managed, and hired for each of those positions ourselves.

3. Creating Meaningful Relationships

Building and maintaining relationships is important today, more than ever before. We place immense value on our relationships, not just with our clients, but our candidates, and the community at large. We spent our “pandemic years” building partnerships with local universities, to open the doors of private staffing to recent college graduates in the most educated metropolitan area in the world.

4. Refusing To Settle

Change is inevitable, yet private staffing has historically lagged in both hiring and employment standards. We’ve always been disruptors, first to adopt AI and machine learning—ensuring smarter, faster, more accurate matches for our clients.


We know that choosing an agency is a personal decision, and we’re honored for the time you have spent considering us as a partner in your search. If you haven’t spoken to us yet, let me be the first to say that we can’t wait to introduce you to our contacts, to guide you through the hiring process, and to introduce you to the perfect candidate. We know the stakes are high, but so are the rewards. With Old State Staffing you’ll be empowered to make informed, meaningful hiring decisions, so you can continue to thrive in a world that’s spinning faster every day.

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